Friday, August 28, 2009 @ 12:12 AM :D
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Everyone is born beautiful, with the fact that you were the result of an amazing union, and that everyone is made of the same composition. The things that truely differ us, are just will,spirit,love and hate and wisdom.
But will you allow the things that differ us to make you an ugly person, even though the word beautiful is still your middle name? It is these things that truely make who you are. Fight for what you truely want, have spirit in what you do, love the right things as well as try to do away with hate. Also, always seek out wisdom from those who have acquired it before you.
Seeing the real beauty of others, always comes from the eyes of the beholder. It is truely the viewer's perception on whether he or she can see beyond what most people can't.
If you're a viewer/critic, choose to see beyond, deep into the people. Look at their positives before looking at their negatives. Find positives about their negatives. This way you'll learn to love people better. And what goes around probably comes around=)
If you're a person being judged, know that no matter what, you are you and that you are beautiful no matter what people think of you. Notice I used the word "think"? That's cause people don't know you, yet, or probably will never know you. How could people know you inside out, when most of the time, almost none of us actually knows what exactly we are inside ourselves?
And if you think you're overweight, and you mind it, then work on it! Your weight is probably an indicator of whether you're lazy, or just someone who loves to indulge. If you're unhappy about something, then do something about it. No one else can, but you. If you're happy about being overweight or in this case, big, then why care what others say to begin with? Your acne is probably due to poor diet habits and sleep. Almost everything is linked to behavior.
But this does not apply for those who have serious medical condition. If it's truely unavoidable, then no matter what, just be happy with yourself, and improve yourself in other ways, many other ways. Read up stuffs so you can help others with problems, get exposure to many things, live how you wanna live.
And if you think you're good looking, this might be a good indicator that you should get out and start learning to improve yourself in other areas. Having something to feel good about yourself might make you neglect every other aspect of life that actually matter. Learn that everything when you learn stuffs, instead of knowing more, you should realise that the more you learn, you realise the less you know.
Always have the drive to learn! And there's no better teacher than the streets, yourself and mistakes.
