So, why did we go from relationship to relationship, promising "forever love", and actually forget the previous and then say it to a new one? Isn't it strange if one day an ex comes back and asks you "but didn't you promise me a long time ago? it's weird huh? haha". With such promises in place, how could we move on and find a new one just like that?

So in the end, they were just empty promises? Perhaps the timing of such promises of love should truely be vouched for only in the later stages. Where's the impact of the promise, when it's said over and over, when it's supposed to be done during marriage itself?

So why do we say it? Was it our insecurity, that wanted us to hear it? If so, finding that security by the right means would be much more fruitful and appropriate.

I'd say, perhaps even less than 10% of people in the world has actually felt true love. True love isn't one sided, it is not just needing a person to protect or support you. It should be something, indescribable. I myself have not felt it yet.

Who'd you wanna spend you whole life with? I'm sure that person would have to be really special.. And there are billions of people out there..the right match, is very unlikely nearby you.

I believe I have found the answer to what's bothering me. There are times in life when you do feel that you have already formed a resolve, a route in mind of how you want to form your purpose to certain stuffs. It's almost like a personal promise to yourself on top of whoever you have promised certain stuffs. I.e. A promise to someone and you promise yourself to fulfill it.

And comes the day people leave you for whatever reasons, as it usually does in life. Then you find yourself stuck with a promise, or certain things you wanna fulfill but you can't, and what's worse, there is no point anymore!

Then you look back at things, yet you do not know if you're wishing time would turn back so you can be with them again cause you want to be with them, or cause you just want to go back and fulfill certain stuffs.

Given a second chance to go back in time and fulfill something which has no point, would you do it?

What do we really regret when people leaves? And in the end, is it a pain we choose to dissolve but forgetting?

We're living to remember every yesterday so our tomorrow would be good. So if life is about having memories and then leaving your mark on earth, why forget stuff? We, in the end, I believe, have to learn to see that whatever was bad and happened, was not as bad as we think. In fact, it might even be beautiful.

What do we truely require to make ourselves truely happy? Is it simple laughter with the most innocent friends? Is it always the case that growing up just makes things complicated,or did we just turn out that way cause we don't know how to handle things?

What do we really live for? Ourselves? If so, then living ourselves would only mean that tomorrow if you're dead, no one will be there to remember you. For others? Then what if they take advantage of you?

Do we live, to write a legacy, for achievements, or for the sake of living? Why do we fear death? cause we will not be able to carry out our dreams? or is it an instinct to make us more likely to survive? could this instinct be making us even more dead than we think as we cling onto life?

Or all in all, we all just need to feel that we exist? that would make us feel alive already?..

life truely is amazing, at creating dilemmas. But we all know one day, we have to find that answer, as we have to provide that shelter we comfortably live in today. And to bring that food to the table, the presents to the christmas trees, the wisdom for tomorrow to the young, the faith in life, we're forced to have..

Are you a boy or a man? Are you a girl or a woman? What makes the difference? The aspects are probably worlds apart. But it all starts with, which do you wanna be? Bluntly put, staying in comfort all the way, or getting out there and showing who you are?

I think one of a guy's biggest sin is being overly egoistic. It's not wrong to make mistakes, but it's definitely not right to choose to stay in a state of making the same mistakes. Insanity is doing the same things over and over but expecting a different outcome. An Ego-maniac can never learn.

Many people expect different results, but stick to a similar plan, or fear change. It's strange, but the right question to ask them here is, "Are you insane?"

*Daniel Webster*

To advance further musically,vocally
To be able to touch people's hearts through music
A good acoustic guitar
A good lead guitar and amp
Be someone of invisibly huge stature
To be as rich as possible
The means to be able to do whatever I want ;)
To be a person who imparts skills and wisdom to others
To be a giver to the needy

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